Thursday, October 24, 2013

Honesty

Being honest sometimes is a difficult task for me. I always take in consideration the other persons reactions and the reaction once I share my heart. Most of  the time I share bits and pieces because some people can't handle my honesty. I always put myself in their shoes - could I handle it, would I be ready for the reaction that comes afterwards?

Its an  unspoken battle. Assuming becomes your ally, but over time becomes your enemy. Tell people how you truly feel and let them digest your heart. Don't take it personally they might not understand but in being honest - you become FREE. I always had a fear of hurting people or disappointing them because I know personally how it feels to be hurt and disappointed. So somehow I shield people feelings.

I'm learning that people are stronger than you think, and they will get over it. The shades are now open and the light can shine freely. Take a page from my experience, sometimes its all in your head..
Don't play chess with people unless you are actually playing the game.



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